Just look at the very big list of demands that these very pathetic women want from men nowadays. Quite a list of demands that most women now want from us men unfortunately. Most of you women are total losers altogether as it is since you’re better off to get a cat for a pet and grow very old all tendermeetup com alone with it. I am sorry your wife didn’t value you for the man you are. You certainly have proven yourself through the years and you’d be a great companion for any kind woman. It is unfortunate that age in the end does matter, although you’ve kept yourself up very well from what you’ve said.
Embrace the fact that he’s probably pretty settled.
You will know deep down if it is right or not. Read all of the posts and one thing is clear im not alone,which is reassuring..Male mid fifties 5′ 6″ reasonably fit @ 158lbs & 20% body fat.. I just don’t understand this way of thinking.
I’m not attracted physically to women my age. Try to get into the physical part of the relationship with a delightful woman of the same age but very difficult. All my sexual desires and fetishes, I only desire to do on younger women . I’m not happy about it but it is what it is. Not fair to the woman of my age who says she “can’t keep her hands off me” when I feel more of a friend attraction.
Support his having a positive relationship with his ex.
Too many wanna bee barbie dolls nowadays that really think they’re all that, and most of these losers are real gold diggers to begin with as well. I’m 59 and have been single 10 years. I’ve been in 4 serious relationships in that time. In my 30’s women had different needs. It is difficult to have a family solo.
I am the most down to earth woman you’d ever want to know. I just read that article on Huff post. I am a woman of old fashioned values, and although I support women’s equality and the progression of women, I think some have taken it too far to where they no longer value men for what men can offer. If that’s the expectation that men of my generation want to have, well fine. That’s probably part of the reason a lot of these guys like to chase after women 20 odd years thier junior — Younger women haven’t figured it out yet and therefore they’re more malable.
They hope for romantic and fancy relationships without disagreements. However, it sounds more like a dream than a reality. Divorcees understand that compromises are inevitable and look at the coexisting of two people more realistically. It means that a man should give her a clear understanding of how adult relationships look like too.
You feel out of practice.
Then, when the time comes, tread lightly with kids. Figure out what you’re looking for in a partner. What are the values you’re most looking for?
This is a place to discuss dating and relationships over 40. This is a sub that intends to be positive about dating, sex, and relationships over 40, and that includes being positive or at least civil towards all genders and life stages. Don’t think him being divorced means he doesn’t want to commit. Many divorced men would love to have the opportunity to try marriage again and get it right.
Truth be told, dating in your 40s can be a wonderful thing. You’re braver, smarter, wiser, and more discerning than ever. Using these qualities as your secret superpowers can make dating in your 40s not only fun but also much more successful than dating in your 30s and 20s.
My wife and I were intimate on a frequent basis and it wasn’t just sex it was a closeness and bonding witch I genuinely cared about. I remember while on a business trip I had a encounter with an attractive woman who wanted to be more than friends. She attempted to kiss me and I said I can’t do this I’m married and she said I am too.
You dudes think you are hot stuff, but young women don’t want anything to do with you when they can find a hot man their own age. I do not want to date someone that is younger nor older than myself within a 2 year difference. It really limits the dating pool though. Notice that that you are the only women commenting. Most women are only interested in the assets of a man which I find funny seeing that many women 50+ don’t have anything to offer a man!
If you’re dating in your 40s, that might represent a different path from the one you had planned for yourself—and that can breed insecurity and a sense of not measuring up as a potential mate. “Whether you are still single, married, or split up, you could be worried about what other people think of you,” Ross says. “You could be caught in that awkward time of not feeling old, but not feeling as young as those in the dating scene, and find it easier to avoid dating.” To that end, finding a relationship over 40 often involves technology—from swiping through potential matches on dating apps to communicating with possible partners via text or DM. And over-40 daters may not love that newer aspect of the game.